Challenging Behavior & Meltdowns

All behavior is communication. When children act out, they are often trying to tell us something they can't yet say with words.

Who this is for

Families dealing with frequent meltdowns, aggression (hitting, biting), property destruction, or elopement (running away).

Common challenges

• Intense reactions to being told "no."
• Struggling to transition from a preferred activity.
• Unsafe behaviors when frustrated or overwhelmed.
• Difficulty self-soothing once upset.

How we help

We look for the "function" or reason behind the behavior. Then, we teach a safer, easier replacement behavior. For example, if a child hits to get a toy, we teach them to ask for a turn. We also work on "tolerating no" and waiting skills in small, manageable steps.

What progress can look like

Progress is fewer, shorter, and less intense meltdowns. It's a child who can take a deep breathwhen frustrated or hand you a card that says "I'm mad" instead of throwing something.